Updates from Brenda Graham

Our pathway….

 Our pathway…

Imagine walking down a sidewalk that goes straight out in front of you with a few curves here and there! 

As you walk down this pathway you are present, calm and enjoying the warmth of the sun, the smell of nature, the light breeze upon your skin, the sounds of birds chirping or insects buzzing around you or water running down a waterfall. 

You take 1 step at a time and as you do you become more and more present within yourself. As you do this the journey you are taking doesn’t seem so harsh or overwhelming. You take a deep breath and as you release all the fears, worries and anxiety are pushed out as you breathe out. 

You stand much taller, clearer thinking and focusing on the 1 step in front of the other on this pathway. 

Along this journey, I stand by your side. Holding your hand, guiding you and steering you get back on the pathway as you veer off a little bit! 

Where are you going, you ask! Well that’s up to you. You tell me how you see your current pathway, so I can step in and help guide you back on the pathway with a few nudges and guidance tips to help you along this path. This is your journey and I’m just along for the magic that is about to appear in your life. 

So, I ask…… What in your life today do you want to change or see clearer? Is it a thought pattern you want to change or healing that you want to finally get a grip on and move forward without or gaining clarity on what’s up ahead for you. 

Let’s take on this pathway (journey) together and create your reality of where you see yourself in a few months or in a year. I’ll be by your side walking with you and holding your hand along the way. 

Let’s do this! 
Let’s do this together! 

If this resonates with you and you would like some guidance with making more space for yourself in an approachable way so you can have more success with your pathway then let’s get on a call so we can discuss your personalized healing journey plan moving forward. 

Remember: 
🐝 Real
🐝 Authentic

Brenda 💫🦅 


If you want different results then you have to do something different!

If you want different results then you have to do something different! 

Are you wanting a certain change in your life? Possibly weight loss, new job, new car, new friends, new relationship?!?!

What are you doing to bring these new things into your life? Going out for walks, joining a gym, updating your resume, networking with people in the field of the job you want, going out or going to new places to meet like minded people or significant other! 

OR just continuing to do the same things and expect a different outcome!?!?!

You can’t lose the weight by thinking about it and hoping you were in a smaller size. You have to step out of the comfort zone and get uncomfortable…..otherwise the same things will just keep happening. 

That can look like getting a walking partner, downloading podcasts to listen to, to inspire you as you walk or buying some cute workout clothes to get you motivated to get moving. 

You don’t belong in a box…..So stop thinking you are in one!!

Get creative, do something that makes you happy or make a game of it to release those chains that are meant to be broken. 

Tell me what is 1 thing that you want to change your thinking about to get results on?!?

I’ll tell you mine…. To truly break free from the constructs of money. To realize that my worth is not a true reflection of the money coming in! What am I doing?……. I’m breaking free from the chains and taking risks on ideas to help heal and transform people from their constructs of this World! Doing things in my business to help others truly heal the wound and not place a bandaid over it! 

So as I am helping others, I am helping myself!!! Read that again!

Some days are going to be easier than others! But, that can’t stop you. You have to keep going. Challenge yourself to grow and do something different! That’s where the growth begins! 

So who’s with me in getting different results?!?! We got this…..

If you would like some guidance with making more space for yourself in an approachable way so you can have more success interacting with those around you-and attracting matched people-then let’s get on a call so we can discuss your personalized healing journey plan moving forward. 

Remember:
🐝 Real
🐝 Authentic

Brenda 💫🦅

“If we don’t talk about it, then it doesn’t exist!”

 “If we don’t talk about it, then it doesn’t exist!”

How many times have you done this and it makes it 10x worse?

Well, let’s address the elephant 🐘 in the room…… 

By addressing what needs to be spoke about actually helps you and everyone involved. It usually starts out as a small stone in your walkway that you “stumble” over! Otherwise, it becomes Mount Everest with a backpack full of bricks on your back! 

I’m not saying it won’t be uncomfortable to talk about but, if it’s a stone in your pathway then it’s much more manageable to handle. Working on your throat chakra while taking a leap of courage will help you get through this stumble. 

Now, if you decide to keep sweeping it under the carpet that mound will keep growing and growing. The stress, overwhelm, not wanting to cope with the issue just keeps mounting until you have Mount Everest in your living room along with the extra burdens that you’re carrying around in the backpack on your back everyday! 

It might be uncomfortable, but speaking up or having a conversation about it early on will be so much easier than climbing that mountain. 

When something small comes about then make it fun to bring it up. Have a code word that you have with that person to say to make light of a conversation that’s needed. That way you both are in a more relaxed frame of mind to discuss the issue at hand. 

My friend and I would say… “The chicken 🐓 runs at midnight”. This made it fun hearted, but also that a conversation was needed. 

After a few times, it made it so much easier to discuss important issues. It always started with a laugh and then an open mind from both sides. 

The mountain is manageable to climb up, but it’s going to take a lot more effort and consistency! 

Most important….. Changing the way issues/conversations are handled. To address it and speak up about them. That way you stumble and not like the contrast of having to climb Mount Everest.

So, speak up and have the conversation! Make it light hearted when needed to do so. Because by not saying anything it doesn’t go away or not exist, the exact opposite is true….. it just keeps mounting up until the mountain is built and then it has to be addressed. There’s no way around it, except climbing it and conquering the mountain or aka the elephant in the room. 

So who’s with me? What word are you going to come up with to talk about the elephant 🐘 in the room?

If you would like some guidance with making more space for yourself in an approachable way so you can have more success interacting with those around you-and attracting matched people-then let’s get on a call so we can discuss your personalized healing journey plan moving forward. 

Remember:
🐝 Real
🐝 Authentic 

Brenda 💫🦅

Community……

Community…..

What does community mean to you? 

For me, it is getting together with a group of people that understand you, see you and most importantly support you! 

No questions asked! No jealousy, but true honest connection. 

This seems like a BIG theme lately. That’s why I want to create a space where people can come virtually or in person to seek conversation, laugh, share and support one another! 

We are not in competition with each other. There is enough success to go around. 

So when I got together with one of my communities last night, I had no hesitation in sharing where I purchased my sound bowls. Not only that, but I also gave some valuable advice to get the insurance when purchasing them. (That came in very handy when my bowl broke and it was replaced because of the insurance) 

This is community! Helping and guiding one another. Not gate keeping. Someday soon I will be collaborating with this woman and bringing the best of both of our gifts together that will bring more community! 

Who’s with me in building and growing a community just like this??

A place you can go and feel supported, seen and heard! 

I’m building my community online with my private Facebook account and would love for you to join. This is where we can connect and feel safe in what we post and find like minded people to connect with. Reach out and I’ll send you the invite to join. You can also follow me on Instagram: @BEnlightened_with_Brenda

I’ll be connecting on the socials along with my actual community. This is a great way to see what events will be happening locally and what I have in store for the community online. 

Let’s connect and create a community that helps build, support and grow one another! 

Let’s do this! ❤️ Who’s joining?

Remember: 
🐝 Real
🐝 Authentic

Brenda 🐝💫 

Unworthiness Wound........

Unworthiness Wound........
Unworthiness wound…. 

As I sit here in my happy place and go within to see why I don’t feel like I deserve what’s coming!

My heart is heavy and really feeling into this wound that has been repeated from lifetime to lifetime. My throat is getting choked up and my eyes are starting to well up with tears 😭. 

I have worked so hard to get where I am…. So why don’t I feel like I’m worth the abundance, happiness, prosperity that is just on the other side of the door, right in front of me ready to walk thru! 

My mind tells me…. (Aka Ego) I’m not good enough! As I said that a dragonfly flew by in front of my face! Leaving a message that I’m worth everything coming to me! 

As I hear these words in my mind being spoken, I also hear 👂 …. That’s enough! Time to switch the switch! Wake up every morning telling yourself you are worthy! YOU ARE FUCKING WORTHY!!! Do mirror magic and say this in the mirror everyday until you believe it! Step thru the door and know that you deserve all that is on the other side! BELIEVE IT! 

Allow it to come in. Receive this beautiful energy and break this karmic lineage. 

As you do this, so many people will be able to take in this abundance too! Break it, Feel it, Release it! It’s not yours to hold onto! 

Stand in your power, make these changes and become the Fucking Amazing Powerful woman you are! 

Not sure who else needed to hear this today…. But, you ARE worthy! You’re amazing despite the voices in your head. 

Who’s with me? Ready to stand tall, proud and powerful. It’s time the world see’s what we are made of and drop the BS! Let’s change the script and BELIEVE in who we are inside! 

No more internal battle…. Let’s stand tall with our cape on our backs and our crowns 👑 on our heads! 

LET’S GO!!

If you would like some guidance with making more space for yourself in an approachable way do you can have more success interacting with those around you-and attracting matched people-then let’s get on a call so we can discuss your personalized healing journey plan moving forward. 

Remember: 
🐝 Real
🐝 Authentic

Brenda 💫🦅

Hi, I'm Brenda!

My journey into spiritual healing blossomed from an unexpected awakening a few years ago. Following a significant life transition, I discovered and embraced more of my intuitive gifts. This personal experience fuels my work with deep empathy and compassion, driving my desire to provide you with clear purpose and direction on your own spiritual path. Clients often tell me they feel comfortable and supported in my readings, consistently finding them remarkably insightful. My life coaching approach is personable and understanding, focused on gently guiding you to the root of your challenges and empowering your healing journey.
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