Messages from Sharilee

5 Ways to Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a Stepmom


The very definition of stepmom is “a woman who is married to someone’s father but is not their “real” mother.  So, it’s no wonder that stepmothers struggle with understanding their role and with feeling inauthentic. It’s understandable that a stepparent might feel like an imposter, stuck in the strange role of doing a lot of “mom things” but not being a mom per se. I know I felt a sense of discomfort and confusion in my year as a stepmom. 
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Awesome Mini-Date Ideas


I have finally got another podcast finished! I confess that these episodes are taking a little more time than I had planned for, but I am still pushing ahead! This episode is full of mini-date ideas for when you don’t have time to date.
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Learning to Trust When Your History Makes It Hard


This is the second episode of the Happily Ever After Again podcast! I am so excited to share this show with you. 

Have you ever gone through a period when you felt irrationally jealous and insecure? Did you find it was based on something in your past, rather than legitimate concerns about your current partner? If you have, you will l find this episode interesting.
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Introduction to the Happily Ever After Again Podcast


An introduction to the Happily Ever After Again Podcast, and the host. Hear the story behind the mike. Remarriage. Marriage transformation. Healing. 

In this episode, you will hear the host’s story of marriage transformation. After the worst day in their marriage, Sharilee and her husband decided to go for marriage counselling, a decision which made all the difference in transforming their marriage. 
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Meet Sharilee Swaity

Sharilee Swaity is a Christian relationship coach with a background in teaching and marketing. This graduate of the Relationship Coaching Institute is passionate about helping women and couples find and keep love after losing a long-term relationship through divorce, widowhood, or relationship breakdown. She works with couples helping them overcome conflict and find love with their spouse. 

Sharilee's passion for helping with relationships was born from her own painful life journey. Growing up witnessing abuse started her on the journey to looking for love in all the wrong places. By age 22, she was already married and divorced. When she finally remarried years later, it looked like she was headed for another divorce, but with the help of counselling and God's wisdom, they turned their second marriage around. 

Sharilee is the author of five books, including Happily Ever After Again: Hope, Healing, and Love for Second Marriages and 16 Gifts from a Stepmom: Encouragement for the Blended Family Journey.   When she's not coaching, writing, or teaching, she loves going for walks with her husband in the forest where they live or spending time in their permaculture-style garden. 

Sharilee loves to experience the city once in a while but nowadays spends most of her time hidden away at their homestead home.  She is a crunchy conservative with a passion for chai tea, sunsets, and trees. She loves learning, research and writing. Clck here to book a coaching call with her today. 
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