Messages from Sharilee


Take Charge of Valentine’s Day This Year!

Take Charge of Valentine’s Day This Year!

Sharilee Swaity
Psst, everyone, Valentines’s Day is coming up! In fact, it’s this week…this Wednesday, to be exact! But you probably knew that, right? What kind of feelings does this holiday invoke in you? Excitement, specialness… or perhaps a bit of dread?Husbands may sometimes feel intimidated by this renowned celebration of love, and a bit of pressure to get exactly the right thing. Conversely, wives may feel a bit of sadness at this time of year, longing for some illusive romantic magic.
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How Marriage Counseling Can Give You Hope

How Marriage Counseling Can Give You Hope

Sharilee Swaity Healing
A marriage counsellor can help give us hope by being a mediator between us and helping us to understand each other. Marriage counselling can help get us past the things that bind us to our past and hurt.Seven years ago, a marriage counsellor gave my husband and me a second chance when she took us under her wings and helped us sort the mess that was our relationship. We were fighting all the time and the first sessions with her were volatile but with infinite patience, she helped us find the love that was hiding underneath the strife and hurt.
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Healing Came to Me Over Time — An Interview with Pat Bubash

Healing Came to Me Over Time — An Interview with Pat Bubash

Sharilee Swaity Interviews, Second Marriage
Have you ever wondered what makes some second marriages so successful, while others are not so much? Well, today, we are talking to Patricia Bubash M.Ed., author of [easyazon_link identifier=”1589095634″ locale=”US” tag=”recommended0cb-20″]Successful Second Marriages[/easyazon_link]. Her book delves deeply into that very topic and focuses on the stories of couples who were very successful in their second marriages.
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A Personal Peek — The Unexpected Beach

A Personal Peek — The Unexpected Beach

Sharilee Swaity God
Wow, what a September it has been! Hurricanes, tornadoes, floods and earthquakes … such tragedy and devastation. It seems like the earth has really been shaken up. We who are not directly involved have been on standby, praying in solidarity, while those of you in the midst of it have been bracing for what comes next.
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Would Your Like to Join My Tour?

Would Your Like to Join My Tour?

Sharilee Swaity
This week, I have put together a blog tour and I hope you will join me. A blog tour is simply when a blogger goes to other people’s blogs and writes guest posts or does interviews, in order to introduce themselves to new readers.
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Do you date your mate?

Do you date your mate?

Sharilee Swaity Connection
Psst … hey you! Do you go on once-a-week dates with your husband or wife? Are you one of the “model couples” that is able to pull this off? If you are, my congratulations go out to you! Your relationship is probably in excellent shape — you and your spouse take time away from your responsibilities to have fun with each other.
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A Personal Peek: Sunsets and Vegetables

A Personal Peek: Sunsets and Vegetables

Sharilee Swaity
Hi there! How are you today? This week, I am trying something a little different. I am going to share a few pictures from my personal life with you. I would like to start doing this once a month, just to add a personal touch!Please let me know what you think of this feature! Okay, here goes …
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Meet Sharilee Swaity

Sharilee Swaity is a Christian relationship coach with a background in teaching and marketing. This graduate of the Relationship Coaching Institute is passionate about helping women and couples find and keep love after losing a long-term relationship through divorce, widowhood, or relationship breakdown. She works with couples helping them overcome conflict and find love with their spouse. 

Sharilee's passion for helping with relationships was born from her own painful life journey. Growing up witnessing abuse started her on the journey to looking for love in all the wrong places. By age 22, she was already married and divorced. When she finally remarried years later, it looked like she was headed for another divorce, but with the help of counselling and God's wisdom, they turned their second marriage around. 

Sharilee is the author of five books, including Happily Ever After Again: Hope, Healing, and Love for Second Marriages and 16 Gifts from a Stepmom: Encouragement for the Blended Family Journey.   When she's not coaching, writing, or teaching, she loves going for walks with her husband in the forest where they live or spending time in their permaculture-style garden. 

Sharilee loves to experience the city once in a while but nowadays spends most of her time hidden away at their homestead home.  She is a crunchy conservative with a passion for chai tea, sunsets, and trees. She loves learning, research and writing. Clck here to book a coaching call with her today. 
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