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Second Marriage Tip #2: Be Patient

Second Marriage Tip #2: Be Patient

Sharilee Swaity
This article is second in a series of quick tips on making it in your second marriage. The first tip was “take time for yourself.”  Let’s look at tip #2 now: “Be Patient.”Don’t expect everyone to get along, and become one big happy family in a week. Or a month. Or even a year. The Brady Bunch was a cool show, but it was hardly realistic. And if we go into marriage expecting it just flow together that easily, we are probably going to be disappointed
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Help, I’m Married To My Opposite!

Help, I’m Married To My Opposite!

Sharilee Swaity Personality
Are you married to your opposite? Do you and your spouse seem to see things differently in almost every way possible? If so, please be assured that this is perfectly normal. From my study of marriage resources, speaking to friends, and my own experience, I think we are in the majority.I’m Married To My Opposite, Too!
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Types of Second Marriage

Types of Second Marriage

Sharilee Swaity
This site is dedicated to helping people in second marriages.  I am in a second marriage, and chances are, you are too, if you are reading this blog. All of us deal with one primary issue: learning to live together and adjust in a newly formed family.The last blog post talked about how second marriages are complicated. And there are several things that make it complicated, but some of our situations are more complicated than others.In this post, I want to take some time to talk about the different types of second marriage that people enter into. 
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When I Knew He Would Commit

When I Knew He Would Commit

Sharilee Swaity
You know those moments in life where something just becomes completely clear? I am going to tell you a story today about when I knew, in my gut, that my future -husband would commit.
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Second Marriage Challenges: Why Is It So Hard?

Second Marriage Challenges: Why Is It So Hard?

Sharilee Swaity
We`ve all heard the horror statistics about second marriages. “Second marriages are way more likely to end in divorce,“ is considered to be common knowledge. It makes you wonder why we even try, sometimes, with all the second marriage challenges that we face.What makes second marriages so difficult? 
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Meet Sharilee Swaity

Sharilee Swaity is a Christian relationship coach with a background in teaching and marketing. This graduate of the Relationship Coaching Institute is passionate about helping women and couples find and keep love after losing a long-term relationship through divorce, widowhood, or relationship breakdown. She works with couples helping them overcome conflict and find love with their spouse. 

Sharilee's passion for helping with relationships was born from her own painful life journey. Growing up witnessing abuse started her on the journey to looking for love in all the wrong places. By age 22, she was already married and divorced. When she finally remarried years later, it looked like she was headed for another divorce, but with the help of counselling and God's wisdom, they turned their second marriage around. 

Sharilee is the author of five books, including Happily Ever After Again: Hope, Healing, and Love for Second Marriages and 16 Gifts from a Stepmom: Encouragement for the Blended Family Journey.   When she's not coaching, writing, or teaching, she loves going for walks with her husband in the forest where they live or spending time in their permaculture-style garden. 

Sharilee loves to experience the city once in a while but nowadays spends most of her time hidden away at their homestead home.  She is a crunchy conservative with a passion for chai tea, sunsets, and trees. She loves learning, research and writing. Clck here to book a coaching call with her today. 
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