Overcoming Procrastination & Mindset Blocks

Overcoming Procrastination & Mindset Blocks

Overcoming Procrastination & Mindset Blocks

Overcoming Procrastination & Mindset Blocks

Breaking Free Through Faith and Action

By Dashonia Marie | Encouraging Her Resilience

 When Delay Becomes a Spiritual Battle

Sister, have you ever felt that silent tug inside — that hesitation when you know God has called you to move, but something whispers, “Not yet”?
You’re not alone.
Procrastination isn’t merely poor time management — it’s often a spiritual battle for your destiny.
The enemy doesn’t always attack with chaos; sometimes he attacks with delay. He convinces you that you’re too tired, too unqualified, too broken, or that it’s not the right time.
But Scripture says:
“So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days.” — Ephesians 5:15-16 (NLT)
Every moment of hesitation becomes an opening for doubt to grow. Every “I’ll do it tomorrow” surrenders ground that God designed for victory today.
You were not created to live in hesitation — you were created to live in holy obedience.
Every purpose within you has been appointed for
 now, not “someday.”

Part One: Understanding Procrastination

Procrastination is not laziness; it is spiritual resistance. It’s the struggle between a willing spirit and a weary flesh.
“The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” — Matthew 26:41 (NLT)
For some, it comes as fear: “What if I fail?”
For others, perfectionism:
 “It has to be perfect before I start.”
For many, emotional fatigue:
 “I just don’t have the energy.”
Yet perfection isn’t God’s standard — obedience is. When we wait for perfect conditions, we miss divine opportunities. God blesses movement, not stagnation.

Faith Insight: Procrastination as a Distraction

The enemy doesn’t have to destroy your purpose if he can distract you from it.
Delay is one of his most dangerous tactics.
“Let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up.” — Hebrews 12:1 (NLT)
Every unnecessary scroll, every comparison, every “not today” becomes a weight that slows down your destiny.
When you postpone obedience, you postpone breakthrough.
True faith doesn’t wait to feel ready — it responds in trust.

Five Faith-Based Steps to Overcome Procrastination

1. Renew Your Mind Daily

The real war begins in the mind. Your thoughts will either propel you toward obedience or anchor you in fear.
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2 (NLT)
Each morning, write a scripture that fuels faith. Declare it over yourself aloud.
Example:
 “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)
Renewal is not an event; it is a daily decision.

2. Pray for Discipline, Not Motivation

Motivation fades; discipline sustains.
Ask God to strengthen your self-control, a fruit of the Spirit.
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” — 2 Timothy 1:7 (NLT)
Pray before you begin:
“Lord, give me strength to begin and grace to finish.”

3. Break Goals into Faith Steps

God rarely reveals the entire path; He lights one step at a time.
“Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.” — Psalm 119:105 (NLT)
Break big assignments into small, faithful steps.
At day’s end, thank God for progress rather than perfection.

4. Speak Life Over Your Assignments

Words shape atmosphere. What you confess over your work determines how you experience it.
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” — Proverbs 18:21 (NLT)
Say: “I am focused, disciplined, and equipped by God’s Spirit to fulfill every assignment.”
Your voice is a weapon — use it to build, not bury, your calling.

5. Be Accountable to Your Calling

God never designed you to walk alone.
Accountability keeps your faith active and your focus sharp.
“As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.” — Proverbs 27:17 (NLT)
Find a sister in faith who will pray with you, challenge you, and celebrate your obedience.

Part Two: Understanding Mindset Blocks

Sometimes procrastination is only the surface symptom; beneath it lies a mindset block — a false belief that contradicts God’s Word.
Common mindset barriers include:
  • Fear of failure
  • Feelings of unworthiness
  • Constant comparison
  • Doubt in God’s promises
  • Shame from past mistakes
“We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from knowing God. We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ.” — 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NLT)
These blocks imprison potential, but God’s truth demolishes them when you confront them in His power.

Five Faith-Based Steps to Break Mindset Blocks

1. Identify the Lie

You cannot defeat what you refuse to define.
Ask God to reveal the lie you’ve believed and confront it with truth.
Lie — “I’m not enough.”
Truth —
 “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” (Psalm 139:14)

2. Repent and Release

Repentance realigns the heart. It is the release of old narratives and acceptance of new truth.
“Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:32 (NLT)
Pray: “Lord, I repent for believing lies that limit me. I release every fear, shame, and doubt into Your hands. Renew my mind.”

3. Guard Your Thoughts

Your mind determines your movement. Protect it diligently.
“Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure.” — Philippians 4:8 (NLT)
Refuse to feed negativity. Replace toxic input with worship, prayer, and the Word.

4. Affirm God’s Promises Daily

Faith grows when it is spoken.
“Let the redeemed of the Lord say so.” — Psalm 107:2 (KJV)
Create daily declarations such as:
  • “I have the mind of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 2:16)
  • “I am transformed, not trapped.”
  • “My thoughts align with God’s truth.”

5. Walk in Renewed Confidence

A renewed mind produces renewed movement.
“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.” — Philippians 1:6 (NLT)
Confidence in Christ is not arrogance; it is agreement with His Word about who you are.

Reflection and Renewal

Take a moment to examine your heart:
  • Where have you delayed obedience?
  • What lies have you believed about your calling?
  • What action can you take today to prove your trust in God?
Affirm aloud:
“I am no longer bound by fear, delay, or doubt. I move in God’s timing, think with a renewed mind, and act in faith daily.”

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for every woman reading these words. Remind her that she is chosen, anointed, and equipped for divine purpose. Expose every lie that has kept her stagnant and replace it with Your liberating truth.
Renew her mind, strengthen her spirit, and discipline her heart to act in faith. Remove every distraction that delays her destiny. Let her rise as the resilient, courageous, Spirit-led woman You designed her to be.
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” — 2 Timothy 1:7 (NLT)
We declare that she moves forward free from delay and full of divine focus.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Final Encouragement

Daughter of God, your purpose is too powerful to pause.
The time is not when everything feels right — the time is
 now.
Do not wait for motivation; walk in obedience.
Do not fear the unknown; trust the One who directs your steps.
When you move, heaven moves with you.
Rise, act, and walk boldly in the freedom Christ died to give you.

From Chains to Change — How God Redeemed My Life

Hey, Resilient Woman — Your Healing Starts Here

My name is Dashonia Marie, and I am living proof that God can take a shattered life and turn it into a story of strength, purpose, and redemption. I’ve walked through the fire — addiction, trauma, loss, and pain that tried to silence my purpose — but God’s grace met me in the ashes and taught me how to rise.

I know what it feels like to be broken, to question your worth, and to wonder if freedom is even possible. But I also know what it means to encounter the healing power of God — the kind that restores what was stolen, rewrites your identity, and breathes new life into weary hearts.

Through Encouraging Her Resilience, I’ve made it my mission to walk beside women like you — women who are ready to break cycles, renew their minds, and rediscover the woman God created them to be. This is not about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about learning that your past does not define you — God’s promise does.

As a Certified Addiction Counselor and Faith-Based Recovery Coach, I don’t just offer sessions; I offer safe spaces — places where healing is nurtured, faith is strengthened, and transformation begins from the inside out.

I believe every woman has a comeback story waiting to be written — and I’m here to help you write yours. Because if God could redeem my life, He can surely restore yours. 

Healing is possible. Hope is real. Freedom is yours — and it starts with saying yes.

With love and grace,

Dashonia Marie

Founder, Encouraging Her Resilience
Certified Addiction Counselor & Recovery Coach


 


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