Day 1: Recognizing the Battle in the Mind

 Renewing the Mind: Breaking Cycles of Negative Thinking

A 7-Day Guide by Dashonia Marie | Encouraging Her Resilience

Day 1: Recognizing the Battle in the Mind

Scripture Focus:

“For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.”
 2 Corinthians 10:3–5 (NKJV)

Resilient Woman of God, before transformation takes place, you must first understand where the true battle begins. Most of us have been taught to fight external wars — the people who hurt us, the systems that failed us, the past that still haunts us — but the greatest war you’ll ever face happens silently between your ears. The mind is the battlefield where victory or defeat begins.

The enemy knows that if he can influence your thoughts, he can influence your emotions, and if he can influence your emotions, he can direct your decisions. Every action you take begins first as a thought. That’s why Satan doesn’t always come with a visible weapon — he often comes as a whisper. “You’re not enough.” “You’ll always fail.” “God has forgotten you.” These thoughts, if entertained long enough, become strongholds — mental prisons that shape how you see yourself, others, and even God.

Paul calls these “arguments and high things that exalt themselves against the knowledge of God.” A stronghold is not always demonic possession; it’s a pattern of thinking that resists truth. You can attend church every week and still live bound by mental chains if your thoughts are not surrendered to Christ.

Many women unknowingly live in cycles of self-doubt because they’ve confused their inner voice with God’s voice. You’ve heard it — that subtle narrative that says, “I’ll never change,” or “I’m not spiritual enough,” or “My past disqualifies me.” But here’s the truth: God never speaks hopelessness. The tone of the Holy Spirit is convicting, not condemning; uplifting, not shaming. If a thought doesn’t bring peace, hope, or alignment with His Word, it did not come from Him.

Romans 12:2 (NLT) reminds us, “Let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.”

Notice it doesn’t say, “Try to think positive thoughts.” It says, “Let God transform you.” Renewal is not about forcing new thoughts — it’s about surrendering your mind to divine transformation. You don’t renew your mind through willpower; you renew it through Word power.

Transformation begins when you invite God into your thought life. When you say, “Lord, teach me to discern truth from lies,” you give Him permission to uproot the toxic thinking that has kept you bound.

Think about Eve in the Garden. Satan didn’t use violence to destroy her — he used suggestion. “Did God really say…?”The attack began with doubt. Likewise, every attack against your destiny begins with a question about your identity and God’s faithfulness.

The renewed woman learns to recognize the lie before it takes root. She doesn’t wrestle with every thought; she filters it through truth. She asks, “Does this align with God’s Word or contradict it?” If it contradicts, she casts it down immediately. Because she knows — what she doesn’t confront, will eventually control her.

So, Resilient Woman of God, this is your first revelation in renewing your mind:

The mind is a battlefield, but through Christ, it is also a place of victory. You don’t have to remain at war with your thoughts. God has already given you authority to take every thought captive.

This week, as you journey through this guide, remember this: your peace is worth protecting, your mind is worth renewing, and your identity is worth fighting for. The transformation you’ve been praying for begins not outside of you, but within you.
Let the renewing begin. 

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From Chains to Change — How God Redeemed My Life

Hey, Resilient Woman — Your Healing Starts Here

My name is Dashonia Marie, and I am living proof that God can take a shattered life and turn it into a story of strength, purpose, and redemption. I’ve walked through the fire — addiction, trauma, loss, and pain that tried to silence my purpose — but God’s grace met me in the ashes and taught me how to rise.

I know what it feels like to be broken, to question your worth, and to wonder if freedom is even possible. But I also know what it means to encounter the healing power of God — the kind that restores what was stolen, rewrites your identity, and breathes new life into weary hearts.

Through Encouraging Her Resilience, I’ve made it my mission to walk beside women like you — women who are ready to break cycles, renew their minds, and rediscover the woman God created them to be. This is not about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about learning that your past does not define you — God’s promise does.

As a Certified Addiction Counselor and Faith-Based Recovery Coach, I don’t just offer sessions; I offer safe spaces — places where healing is nurtured, faith is strengthened, and transformation begins from the inside out.

I believe every woman has a comeback story waiting to be written — and I’m here to help you write yours. Because if God could redeem my life, He can surely restore yours. 

Healing is possible. Hope is real. Freedom is yours — and it starts with saying yes.

With love and grace,

Dashonia Marie

Founder, Encouraging Her Resilience
Certified Addiction Counselor & Recovery Coach


 


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