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Victory Over the Mind Games

Victory Over the Mind Games
Day 3: Victory Over the Mind Games
 
August 1, 2025
 
Scripture:
“We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from knowing God. We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ.” — 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NLT)
Recap:
Sisters, over these last two days we’ve walked through the reality of the conflict within.
 
On Day 1, we faced The Battle No One Sees. We admitted that behind the smiles and the “I’m okay,” we fight silent wars inside of us. We learned that the very struggle we feel is proof that the Spirit of God is alive within us.
 
On Day 2, we asked, “Why does doing right feel so hard?” And we learned that it’s because our flesh and spirit are constantly pulling in opposite directions. The flesh longs for comfort and quick fixes, but the Spirit longs for holiness and truth. We realized that every time we choose the Spirit, we are breaking chains and stepping closer to destiny.
 
Now, on Day 3, we step onto the most dangerous battlefield of all — the mind.

Thought to Ponder:

The enemy doesn’t always attack with visible weapons. He attacks with thoughts. If he can plant a seed of doubt, fear, or shame in your mind, he knows he can keep you bound even when you look free on the outside.
 
Think about it: how many times have you looked like you had it together while silently battling thoughts like, “I’m not enough. I’ll never be free. God is disappointed in me. I’m too broken to change.”
 
Sis, this is where the enemy does his dirtiest work. He builds lies brick by brick until they become a fortress — a stronghold — in your mind. And if you don’t tear them down, they’ll dictate how you see yourself, how you live, and even how you see God.
 
But here’s the good news: you don’t have to believe every thought that crosses your mind. God has given you the authority to take those thoughts captive. That means you don’t just sit back and let them run wild — you grab them, confront them, and force them to bow to the truth of God’s Word.
  • When the enemy says, “You’ll never change,” you declare: “I am a new creation in Christ” (2 Corinthians 5:17).
  • When he says, “You’re too broken,” you answer: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3).
  • When he says, “Your past defines you,” you proclaim: “Whom the Son sets free is truly free” (John 8:36).
 
Victory is not pretending you don’t hear the lies. Victory is standing up in the power of the Spirit and declaring, “Devil, you don’t get the final say — God does.”
 
Sis, listen — the mind is the gateway to your destiny. That’s why the devil fights so hard there. But you are not a prisoner in your own head. You are more than a conqueror. And with every lie you replace with God’s truth, you reclaim territory that was stolen.
 
The conflict within no longer has to control you. The God inside you is greater than every lie, every doubt, and every fear. Today, the battle in your mind shifts — because you’re not fighting alone. The Word of God is your weapon, and with it, you are unstoppable.
Reflection Questions:
  1. What negative thought has been holding you captive that you must confront today?
  2. Which scripture can you begin speaking over that thought to break its power?
  3. How would your life look if you walked daily in the truth of who God says you are?
Challenge for Today:
Write down three lies the enemy has been using against you. Beside each one, write a scripture that destroys it. Every morning this week, stand up and declare those truths out loud until the lie loses its hold on you.
Affirmation:
“My mind belongs to Christ. Every lie is silenced by God’s truth. I am no longer a prisoner of my thoughts — I walk in victory.”
Closing Word to the Women of Encouraging Her Resilience:
This 3-day journey has revealed the war inside, but it has also revealed your victory. You’ve faced the battle no one sees. You’ve discovered why doing right feels so hard. And today, you’ve taken back your mind.
 
From this day forward, don’t just recognize the lies — replace them. Don’t just fight the battle — win it. And remember: you’re not standing in this war by yourself. The God of Heaven fights for you, and through Him, you are already victorious.
 


Why Does Doing Right Feel So Hard?

Why Does Doing Right Feel So Hard?
Day 2: Why Does Doing Right Feel So Hard?
 
July 31, 2025
 
Scripture:
“The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other…” — Galatians 5:17 (NLT)
 
Devotional Thought:
Sisters, yesterday we exposed the truth that there is a battle no one sees — a war inside of us between what we want to do and what we actually do. And if we’re honest, some of us went to bed last night still wrestling with those same thoughts, still asking: “Why does it feel so hard to do what I know is right?”
 
Let me tell you the truth the enemy doesn’t want you to hear: it feels hard because there is a war for your soul. This isn’t just about breaking a bad habit or making a better choice — this is about destiny versus destruction, freedom versus bondage, life versus death.
 
Your flesh craves what numbs the pain, what brings quick pleasure, what feeds pride, anger, or bitterness. Your spirit, on the other hand, longs for holiness, peace, forgiveness, and truth. And every time you lean toward your spirit, hell gets nervous. Why? Because the enemy knows the power of a woman who finally walks free.
 
That’s why he whispers in the shadows of your mind:

  • “Just do it this one time — God will forgive you.”
  • “You’re too weak to really change.”
  • “No one even cares, so why keep trying?”
 
But the Spirit of God, living inside you, whispers back louder:

  • “You are chosen.”
  • “You are not who you used to be.”
  • “You don’t need that — you need Me.”
 
Sis, hear this: the reason doing right feels like climbing a mountain is because you are breaking generational strongholds. You are standing in the gap, stopping cycles of addiction, shame, abuse, and fear that have run in your family for years. Every time you choose the Spirit over the flesh, you are not just fighting for yourself — you are fighting for your children, your sisters, your future, and every woman watching you.
 
And yes, it feels heavy. Yes, it feels exhausting. But holiness is worth it. Freedom is worth it. And God’s strength is made perfect when you feel the weakest. You may feel like you’re barely holding on, but God says, “My grace is sufficient for you.”
 
Don’t miss this: If the fight is this intense, it’s because there is something in you the enemy does not want birthed. He wants to tire you out before you see the breakthrough. But you are stronger than you think, not because of you — but because the same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in you.
 
So today, don’t shrink back. Don’t believe the lie that you’re too weak. Don’t let your flesh or the enemy convince you you’re losing. You are being pulled toward destiny — don’t let bondage drag you back.
 
Reflection Questions:

  1. When the temptation feels heavy, what lies does the enemy whisper to you?
  2. What would change in your life if you fully believed God’s Spirit was stronger than your flesh?
  3. How would your future look if you consistently chose Spirit over flesh?
 
Today’s Challenge:

Identify one moment today when your flesh and spirit are in conflict — and choose the Spirit. Write it down. At the end of the day, lift your hands in gratitude and declare:
“I am not my flesh. I belong to the Spirit of the living God.”
 
Affirmation:
“The struggle proves I am chosen. I will not go back. I am walking toward destiny, and God’s Spirit in me will not fail.”
 





The Battle No One Sees

The Battle No One Sees
Day 1: The Battle No One Sees
 
Scripture Focus:
“I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.” — Romans 7:15 (NLT)
 
Devotional Message:
Let’s be real, my sisters: there are battles we fight that no one knows about. The kind of battles we cover up with makeup, fake smiles, and “I’m fine” when someone asks how we’re doing. These are the battles no one sees — the wars we fight within ourselves, the silent struggles that play out in the privacy of our minds and hearts.
 
We fight battles against temptation, replaying in our heads the very things we swore we would never go back to. We fight battles of shame, trying to forget the mistakes of yesterday that still whisper “you’ll never be free.” We fight battles of fear — fear of failing again, fear of not being enough, fear that if people really knew us, they wouldn’t love us.
 
Some of us are fighting battles in our minds, where thoughts won’t stop racing. The enemy plants seeds like, “You’re too broken.” “You’ll always be this way.” “God is tired of you.” And we don’t tell anyone because we’re afraid they wouldn’t understand.
 
We fight battles in our hearts — struggling to forgive when the wound is still fresh, struggling to trust God when life keeps hitting us with disappointments, struggling to love ourselves when we look in the mirror and only see scars.
 
But hear this, daughter of God: your inner battle does not disqualify you — it proves that you are still in the fight. If you had truly given up, there would be no struggle. The fact that you feel the tug-of-war between flesh and spirit means God’s Spirit is alive in you.
 
Paul himself confessed, “I don’t do what I want to do; instead, I do what I hate.” Even a mighty man of God wrestled with the same conflict within. That means you’re not strange. You’re not weak. You’re not less than. You’re human. And more importantly — you’re chosen.
 
The enemy wants to convince you that your struggle makes you unworthy, but the truth is this: the battle within you is the very evidence that God is working on you. Every time you fight to choose right, even if you stumble, you are declaring that the devil does not have full control over you.
 
Let me tell you something raw and real:
  • That secret temptation you’re too ashamed to tell anyone about? God already sees it, and He’s not running away from you.
  • That late-night loneliness that drives you back to old habits? God hears your silent cry in those moments.
  • That fear that tells you you’ll always be this way? God says, “I am doing a new thing. Do you not see it?” (Isaiah 43:19).
 
The battle no one sees is often the very place God births your greatest breakthrough. But you must stop carrying it alone. Invite Him in. Let His Spirit strengthen you where you feel the weakest.
 
Reflection Questions:
  1. What is the hidden battle you’ve been fighting silently — the one you’ve told no one about?
  2. In what ways has the enemy tried to convince you that this struggle makes you unworthy of God’s love?
  3. What would it look like for you to invite God into this battle, instead of fighting it in silence?
 
Challenge for Tonight:
Take out a piece of paper and write down the one battle that feels the heaviest right now — even if it scares you to admit it. Then pray this:
“Lord, I can’t carry this fight alone anymore. I lay this at Your feet. Give me the strength to choose Your will over mine, and remind me daily that I am not fighting by myself.”
 
Affirmation:
“I will not be defined by the war within me. My God fights for me, and in Him, I already have victory.”

 


The Lord Is Your Keeper

The Lord Is Your Keeper
Day 7 – Saturday, July 26, 2025
 
 The Lord Is Your Keeper

Scripture: “The Lord keeps you from all harm and watches over your life. The Lord keeps watch over you as you come and go, both now and forever.” — Psalm 121:7–8 (NLT)

 Morning Devotional: You’ve Been Carried, Not Just Covered
 
Sis… take a breath.
You made it to Day 7 not just because you’re strong—but because God kept you when you didn’t even know you needed keeping.
 
Let’s be honest. You didn’t survive everything you’ve been through because of your own strength.
You weren’t protected from the overdose, the abusive partner, the court case, the breakdown, the loss, the relapse, the rage, the grief… because you had it all together.
No, you were KEPT.
Kept when you ran. Kept when you fell. Kept when you doubted. Kept when you broke.
 
That’s what it means when we say, “The Lord is your Keeper.”
It’s not poetic—it’s prophetic. It’s truth wrapped in power.

God’s Keeping Is Constant and Complete
 
Psalm 121:7–8 doesn’t say “sometimes” or “occasionally.”
It says God is watching over your life—not just the big stuff. Every detail.
  • Your coming in.
  • Your going out.
  • Your silence.
  • Your tears.
  • Your secrets.
  • Your struggle.
  • Your story.
 
And He’s not watching from afar—He’s present, active, hands-on.
 
You are divinely watched, divinely guarded, divinely preserved.

To the Woman Who’s Been in Survival Mode for Too Long…
 
You’ve been trained to watch your own back.
To trust no one.
To rely on no one.
To carry everyone else’s weight and still show up smiling.
 
But sis—you were never built to be your own keeper.
 
You don’t have to check every angle.
You don’t have to brace for another attack.
You don’t have to control what only God can cover.
 
You are not unguarded. YOU ARE HELD.

Why Does This Matter for You?
 
Because this isn’t just the end of a 7-day devotional.
This is the start of your next level of trust.
 
God didn’t just get you through the fire.
He’s already ahead of you in the next battle—setting angels in place, clearing paths, and guarding what’s yours.
 
You are not vulnerable. You are not at risk. You are KEPT by the Keeper of all creation.

Spiritual Awareness Activation
 
Right now, lay your hand over your heart and declare:
 
“I am not alone. I am not forgotten. I am not exposed. I am kept by God. My life is watched over, covered, protected, and preserved. I am safe in the hands of my Keeper.”

Prayer:
 
Lord, thank You for being my Keeper—not just when I’m strong, but especially when I’m weak. You’ve watched over me in silence, protected me in storms, and carried me through fires. Today, I surrender every piece of my life into Your keeping—my recovery, my relationships, my emotions, my destiny. Anchor me in the truth that I don’t walk this life alone. I am covered, now and forever. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Affirmation of the Day:
 
“The Lord is my Keeper. He holds my life together, and nothing slips through His hands. I am covered—now and forever.”
 


The Dangers of Leaving God’s Covering

 The Dangers of Leaving God’s Covering
Day 6 – Friday, July 26, 2025
 
 The Dangers of Leaving God’s Covering

Scripture: “Because you have made the Lord your dwelling place—the Most High, who is my refuge—no evil shall be allowed to befall you, no plague come near your tent.” — Psalm 91:9–10 (ESV)

 Morning Devotional: You Can’t Afford to Walk Uncovered
 
Resilient woman of God—listen carefully: Your survival wasn’t random. Your protection wasn’t luck. Your peace wasn’t accidental. It was all because you were covered.
 
But there’s danger when you leave that covering.
 
There’s danger in choosing your way over God’s way.
There’s danger in choosing comfort over conviction.
There’s danger in thinking you can handle life without the presence of God surrounding you.
Because outside of His will, you’re open. Unshielded. Unprotected. And the enemy loves an unguarded woman.

Let’s Be Real… You Know What It’s Like to Be Uncovered
 
You’ve been there—
  • Praying less.
  • Trusting yourself more than God.
  • Reacting instead of waiting.
  • Forcing doors open that God never meant you to walk through.
  • Feeling the weight of life’s fire with no peace, no clarity, no shelter.
 
And it left you drained. Empty. Attacked.
Why? Because you stepped out from under the covering—and didn’t even realize it.

Psalm 91:9–10 gives us a spiritual truth with real consequences.
 
God says when you make Him your dwelling, when you don’t just visit His presence but live in it—evil cannot overtake you. Destruction cannot devour you.
That’s a promise.
 
But when you stop dwelling—when you move in your flesh, ignore the Holy Spirit, disobey God’s Word—you’re out of bounds.
And outside the shelter, the enemy can strike.

Sis, You’re Too Valuable to Be Uncovered
 
You carry a calling.
You’ve been delivered from things others didn’t make it out of.
You’re breaking generational curses.
You’re raising children. Leading others. Healing from trauma.
 
You can’t afford to be out here uncovered.
Not now. Not in this season.

The Enemy Watches for the Moment You Step Out of Position
 
He knows he can’t reach you while you’re hidden in God.
But when you step outside the will of God—
  • Out of alignment.
  • Out of obedience.
  • Out of prayer.
  • Out of submission—
 
You become a walking target.
And the attacks get personal. The warfare gets heavier. The confusion gets louder.
 
But here’s the truth: You can return. Right now. No shame. No delay. Just surrender.

Spiritual Awareness Activation
 
Ask yourself this:
“Have I walked out from under God’s covering?”
“Am I trying to do life my way—and wondering why I feel so under attack?”
 
If the answer is yes, today is your call back.
Back to alignment.
Back to obedience.
Back to the shelter that never stopped being open.

Declare This Right Now:
 
“I will not live exposed. I run back into God’s presence. I choose to dwell—not drift. I am covered. I am guarded. I am protected under the shadow of the Most High.”

Prayer:
 
Father, forgive me for walking away from Your covering—whether through pride, fear, pain, or impatience. I’ve felt the weight of life outside Your will. I’ve tasted the warfare of disobedience. But today, I come back. Cover me again. Restore my awareness. Renew my surrender. Anchor me in Your presence. I choose to dwell in You. I choose alignment. I choose divine protection. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Affirmation of the Day:
 
“I am not wandering—I am rooted. I do not walk exposed—I walk covered. I do not lead myself—I follow God. His presence is my shelter, and I dwell in it daily.”


 
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From Chains to Change — How God Redeemed My Life

Hey, Resilient Woman — Your Healing Starts Here

My name is Dashonia Marie, and I am living proof that God can take a shattered life and turn it into a story of strength, purpose, and redemption. I’ve walked through the fire — addiction, trauma, loss, and pain that tried to silence my purpose — but God’s grace met me in the ashes and taught me how to rise.

I know what it feels like to be broken, to question your worth, and to wonder if freedom is even possible. But I also know what it means to encounter the healing power of God — the kind that restores what was stolen, rewrites your identity, and breathes new life into weary hearts.

Through Encouraging Her Resilience, I’ve made it my mission to walk beside women like you — women who are ready to break cycles, renew their minds, and rediscover the woman God created them to be. This is not about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about learning that your past does not define you — God’s promise does.

As a Certified Addiction Counselor and Faith-Based Recovery Coach, I don’t just offer sessions; I offer safe spaces — places where healing is nurtured, faith is strengthened, and transformation begins from the inside out.

I believe every woman has a comeback story waiting to be written — and I’m here to help you write yours. Because if God could redeem my life, He can surely restore yours. 

Healing is possible. Hope is real. Freedom is yours — and it starts with saying yes.

With love and grace,

Dashonia Marie

Founder, Encouraging Her Resilience
Certified Addiction Counselor & Recovery Coach


 


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