“Faithful in the Fire: Standing When Everything Says Fall”
Focus Scripture: Psalm 121:1–2 (NLT)
“I look up to the mountains—does my help come from there? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth!”
There’s a kind of faith that’s easy when life is calm. It’s simple to worship when everything feels aligned, when doors are opening, when favor is flowing. But the question today isn’t can you praise when it’s peaceful? The question is—can you remain faithful when the fire is blazing?
Can you pray when the weapon is formed and pointed in your direction?
Can you worship when your back is pressed against the wall, and there seems to be no way out?
Can you trust God when the storm is not passing, but raging harder than before?
That’s the kind of faith that moves Heaven.
The kind that says, “I will not fold.”
The kind that says, “I will still stand.”
The kind that says, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.”
Woman of Encouraging Her Resilience, hear this clearly: God is not just the God of deliverance—He’s the God who dwells in the fire with you.
When the heat rises, He doesn’t back away. When the waters rise, He doesn’t jump ship. He walks through the storm with you.
Don’t be deceived into thinking God has abandoned you because the fire hasn’t lifted. Sometimes, He allows the fire to prove what He placed inside of you. Faith doesn’t develop on the mountain; it’s forged in the furnace.
So how do you stay faithful when everything around you feels like it’s falling apart?
You fix your eyes.
You look to the hills.
You remember that your help never came from people, from systems, or from your own strength.
Your help comes from the Lord.
The same God who kept you last year.
The same God who protected your mind when you should’ve lost it.
The same God who picked you up off that bathroom floor when no one else knew you were drowning in silent desperation.
He hasn’t changed. He hasn’t moved. He hasn’t let go.
And He never will.
Here’s how you stay faithful in the fire:
- Praise anyway. Worship confuses the enemy. Worship declares: “I may be in pain, but I still know my God is worthy.”
- Pray through it. Don’t wait for perfect words—just open your mouth. Heaven doesn’t require perfection, only honesty.
- Stand anyway. When life tries to fold you, plant your feet on the unshakable foundation of God’s Word. Remind yourself: “I was built for this.”
- Trust anyway. The fire isn’t proof that God is gone—it’s proof that something powerful is being refined inside of you.
This storm won’t take you out. It’s preparing you to walk in everything you were destined for.
So today, don’t shrink. Don’t panic. Don’t run.
Stand.
Stand on your faith.
Stand in your identity.
Stand in the promise that God is with you—even here.
Declare This Boldly Today:
I will remain faithful even in the fire.
I will worship through the storm and pray through the pressure.
My help doesn’t come from this world—it comes from the Lord.
God is with me, and I will not be shaken.
I stand firm on the foundation of His Word, and I will not fall.
Stay rooted. Stay faithful. Stay on fire—because this storm is not your end. It’s your testimony in the making.
– Dashonia Marie
Encouraging Her Resilience
May 2, 2025
“Don’t Grow Weary in Doing Good”
“So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.”
— Galatians 6:9 (NLT)
Good morning, my resilient sisters!
Today’s message is a sacred reminder straight from the heart of God: Don’t grow weary in doing good. I know firsthand how exhausting this journey can be. Recovery, healing, transformation—it’s not easy. Some days you feel like you’re making progress, and other days it feels like you’re stuck in the same cycle. The temptation to give up, to fall back, to say “what’s the point?” is real.
But the Word of God in Galatians 6:9 is a divine encouragement to stay the course. It tells us that if we keep going—if we keep doing good, even when no one notices, even when we feel drained, even when we want to walk away—there is a harvest coming.
That harvest may not show up overnight. But sister, it is coming. Your labor is not in vain. The time you’ve spent working on your sobriety, choosing forgiveness, pushing through the trauma, waking up and showing up when your heart felt heavy—it all matters. Heaven sees you. God honors you.
Let’s be real:
In recovery, it’s easy to grow weary. Many of us come from seasons where life knocked us down again and again. Addiction, trauma, heartbreak, betrayal—it all left scars. But now that we’re walking with Christ, we’re building something new: a clean heart, a renewed mind, a healed soul. That takes effort. It takes consistency. And it takes a whole lot of faith.
You may be tired, but you’re not defeated. You may be in a waiting season, but you are not forgotten. Don’t let the enemy lie to you and make you believe that your obedience isn’t working. Every day you say yes to God and no to your old ways, you’re planting seeds of healing, peace, purpose, and joy.
Let me remind you of this truth:
You’re not doing good for applause. You’re doing it because you are a daughter of the King. You’re doing it because the woman you are becoming is stronger than the one you used to be.
How can we keep from growing weary?
- Stay connected to your source – Daily prayer, worship, and Scripture aren’t just “to-do’s.” They are your fuel. When your spirit feels dry, go back to the well that never runs dry—Jesus.
- Rest without quitting – Rest is holy. Even Jesus stepped away to rest and recharge. Don’t confuse rest with quitting. You can take a break and still keep moving forward.
- Encourage yourself in the Lord – Speak life over yourself. Remember who you are. You are chosen. You are healed. You are called. You are capable.
- Lean on your sisters – This journey is not meant to be walked alone. That’s why Encouraging Her Resilience exists—to walk with you, cry with you, celebrate with you, and remind you that you are not alone.
Your spiritual and recovery harvest is coming. Don’t miss it by giving up too soon.
Let today be your reminder to lift your head, square your shoulders, and press forward with grace. Even if you’ve stumbled. Even if you’ve cried all night. Even if you feel weak right now. Strength is being made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).
Declaration:
I will not grow weary. I am rooted in Christ. I am empowered by grace. I will see the fruit of my obedience. I will finish this race strong.
Affirmation for Today:
I am faithful, I am focused, and I am fruitful in Jesus’ name.
You’ve come too far to quit now, beautiful sister. Keep going. Keep showing up. Keep doing the good God called you to do. Your harvest is on the way.
With love and strength,
Dashonia Marie
Founder, Encouraging Her Resilience
“Grateful, Grounded, and Guided by Grace”
Tuesday, April 29, 2025
Encouraging Her Resilience – Good Morning Blog
Good Morning, Resilient Woman of Christ,
Today, let’s rise with hearts full of gratitude, spirits clothed in humility, and minds fully surrendered to the perfect plan of Jesus Christ. No matter where you are in your journey—whether you’re on the mountaintop or walking through a dark valley—God is with you, and He is worthy of your trust.
In a world that teaches us to only be thankful when things are going our way, we choose to live differently. We are women of resilience. We are women of faith. And we know that even in the hardest of days, there is still something to be thankful for. Every breath we take is proof that God isn’t finished with us yet.
The Bible reminds us in 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NLT):
“Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.”
This doesn’t mean we’re thankful for the pain—but we choose to be thankful in it. We choose to praise God even when we don’t understand. We choose to stay humble, knowing that His plan is far greater than anything we could ever imagine. Gratitude keeps us grounded. It shifts our focus. It reminds us that even when our situation looks uncertain, our Savior is still certain.
And humility? Oh sister, humility is the secret weapon of a woman who knows who her God is. It’s not weakness. It’s strength under surrender. It’s saying, “God, I don’t have all the answers, but I trust You do.” It’s choosing to lay down pride, release control, and trust that God is ordering every step—even the ones that feel messy, painful, or unclear.
Let this be the day you say, “Lord, I may not understand the season I’m in, but I will thank You anyway.”
Let this be the day you walk humbly, speak gently, love deeply, and trust fiercely.
Let this be the day you realize that everything you’ve gone through wasn’t meant to break you—it was meant to build you.
To the woman in recovery:
Your healing may not look like you thought it would, but that doesn’t mean God isn’t moving. Stay thankful. Stay humble. Keep trusting. He’s not done. You are not behind. You are right on time for God’s perfect plan.
Morning Prayer:
“Father, I thank You for today. Thank You for the breath in my lungs, for the lessons You’ve taught me in my valleys, and for the grace that carries me daily. Help me to remain thankful in every season, humble in every victory, and faithful in every trial. I trust Your plans for my life. I surrender my will and embrace Yours. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
Today’s Affirmation:
I choose gratitude over grumbling, humility over pride, and faith over fear. God’s plan for my life is good, and I trust Him completely.
A Bold Reminder:
You may not be where you want to be, but you are not where you used to be—and that alone is a reason to lift your hands and thank God.
“Sacred Rest: Honoring God Through Self-Care”
Good Morning, Beautiful Resilient Woman of God!
Today is Saturday, April 26, 2025, and in the community of Encouraging Her Resilience, we celebrate Self-Care Saturday—a day set aside to intentionally pause, rest, and refocus our hearts on the One who sustains us.
Self-Care Saturday isn’t about selfishness; it’s about sacred stewardship. It’s about recognizing that your body, your mind, and your soul are precious to God and deserving of care. It’s about making space to heal, to breathe, to be still, and to allow the Holy Spirit to refresh every weary place inside of you.
Why is Self-Care Saturday Important?
Life is heavy. Recovery is work. Healing demands energy. And if we keep giving, moving, doing, and serving without replenishment, we will eventually collapse under the weight. Self-care is an act of obedience—it’s honoring the truth that we were never created to run on empty. It is an acknowledgment that our strength comes from God, and even Jesus Himself modeled the need to step away, pray, and find rest.
The Bible tells us in Luke 5:16 (NLT),
“But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.”
Jesus—the Savior of the world, the Healer of hearts—needed time away from the crowds. He chose solitude. He prioritized communion with the Father. If Jesus Himself withdrew for rest and renewal, how much more should we?
Why Self-Care Is Necessary for Recovery and Spiritual Well-Being
In our recovery journey, self-care is not just helpful—it’s critical.
Recovery calls us to break old patterns of chaos, codependency, and self-neglect. It demands that we learn new rhythms of grace, peace, and personal responsibility. Without self-care, we stay in survival mode. With self-care, we step into a life of thriving—mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
Spiritually, self-care allows us to stay aligned with Christ. It clears the noise. It softens our hearts. It reminds us that we are not machines—we are daughters of the Most High God, created for rest as much as for purpose. Through self-care, we strengthen our walk with Jesus by making room to hear His voice, feel His presence, and receive His healing love.
Bold Truth for Today:
You are not just a survivor. You are a temple of the Holy Spirit. You are worth the time, the care, and the rest. Your healing matters. Your heart matters. Your walk with God matters. Taking care of yourself is an act of worship.
How Can You Practice Self-Care Today?
- Spend time alone with God in prayer and worship.
- Take a walk in nature and breathe deeply of His creation.
- Write in your journal what you are grateful for.
- Rest without guilt.
- Turn off the noise and listen for God’s whisper.
- Treat your body kindly—with nourishment, hydration, and rest.
- Spend time doing something that restores your joy.
Morning Prayer:
“Father, today I receive Your invitation to rest. Teach me to honor the body You gave me, the mind You renew, and the spirit You are healing. As I step away from the busyness, meet me in the stillness. Restore my strength. Revive my soul. Refresh my heart. I want to walk in wholeness, not just survival. Thank You for modeling rest through Your Son Jesus. I follow His example today. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
Daily Affirmation:
I honor God by honoring myself. Rest is holy. Healing is happening. I am a daughter of the King, worthy of care, restoration, and love.
Healing From Trauma With God’s Help
Thursday, April 23, 2025
Day 5: The Healing Power of Godly Community
Scripture Focus: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (NLT)
“Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.”
Devotional:
Recovery can feel like a lonely road. There are days when the shame of your past screams louder than the hope of your future. There are nights when the weight of regret, guilt, and memories try to pull you back into darkness. And for many of us, the instinct is to isolate—to hide from others, to sit in silence, to convince ourselves that we’re too damaged to be loved or understood. But that is not God’s plan for our healing.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 is more than just a scripture—it’s a strategy for survival in recovery. This verse reminds us that we’re not supposed to do this alone. When you’ve spent years numbing pain, living in survival mode, or walking through trauma, you may feel like you can’t trust anyone. But God is gently calling you to trust Him by letting people in again. Not just any people—safe people, godly people, healing people.
In recovery, community is not optional—it is essential. It’s in community that we learn how to be seen and still loved. It’s in community that we find people who speak faith when we feel weak. It’s in community where we are reminded, “You don’t have to be perfect to be present.” Recovery requires accountability, encouragement, prayer, and love. It requires people who will call you higher when you want to give up and remind you of God’s truth when lies are screaming in your head.
Every time we isolate, the enemy wins a small battle. But every time we reach out, connect, open up, and let someone sit with us in the hard places—we take back territory. We reclaim healing. We silence shame. And we walk closer to freedom. Whether you’re recovering from addiction, trauma, abuse, or emotional pain—your healing journey was never meant to be walked alone. God has already assigned people to your life who will walk with you, pray with you, and remind you of your worth. Find them. Lean into them. Heal with them.
Reflection:
What has isolation cost me in my recovery journey? Have I allowed fear or past wounds to block me from the community God is trying to give me? What would my healing look like if I let someone walk with me?
Action Steps:
- Identify one godly, trustworthy person or group you can connect with this week—a recovery sister, a mentor, a spiritual friend, or a Christ-centered support group.
- Take a small step to connect. Be honest. Be brave. Send the message, attend the meeting, or ask for prayer.
- Write a prayer in your journal asking God to help you overcome the fear of connection and to lead you to safe community.
Affirmation:
I am not walking through recovery alone. God has placed the right people in my life to encourage, support, and walk with me. I release fear and receive the healing that comes through godly community. I am safe, I am supported, and I am surrounded by grace.
Life Application:
In recovery, one of the most powerful tools God gives us is each other. You were never created to fight addiction, trauma, shame, or mental battles on your own. That’s why healing spaces like Encouraging Her Resilience exist—because God knew you would need a place to be seen, held, and restored. Apply this truth by committing to community even when it feels uncomfortable. Make attending support group meetings, check-in calls, and one-on-one sessions a priority. Choose to be present, even when you’re hurting. That’s where the healing happens—not in hiding, but in showing up. Let community be the soil where your recovery grows roots, and watch how God brings beauty out of the very place you once felt broken.
