When Pain Meets Purpose

Day 15 – Friday, September 5, 2025

When Pain Meets Purpose

Scripture Focus: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” — Romans 8:28 (NIV)

The Truth About Pain

Sis, let’s be real — pain is something every single one of us has faced. Pain is the distress of loss, abuse, rejection, trauma, addiction, heartbreak, or disappointment. It is the wound that breaks your heart, the ache that lingers when everyone else has moved on. Pain leaves scars, and if left unhealed, it can define the way we see ourselves, others, and even God.
But spiritually, pain is more than just a feeling. It is a battlefield. The enemy uses pain as a tool to paralyze purpose. He wants you so focused on what you’ve lost that you cannot see what God is birthing. He wants you to stay bitter so you never step into better.
Yet God, in His sovereignty, never wastes pain. He allows us to walk through trials not to break us but to build us. Psalm 119:71 says, “It was good for me to be afflicted so that I might learn your decrees.” Pain becomes the soil where endurance, character, and faith are planted.

The Truth About Purpose

Purpose is the reason for which something is created. Spiritually, your purpose is the divine assignment God placed on your life before you were even born. “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart”(Jeremiah 1:5).
Purpose is not just about what you do — it is about who you are in Christ and the impact your life makes for the Kingdom. Your purpose is always bigger than you. It is about God’s glory shining through your story.

When Pain Meets Purpose

So, what does it mean when pain meets purpose?
It means that the very thing the enemy used to try and destroy you becomes the very thing God uses to elevate you. Pain becomes the pathway to purpose.
  • Joseph’s betrayal by his brothers positioned him for the palace (Genesis 50:20).
  • Job’s suffering revealed God’s sovereignty and became a testimony of faith.
  • Jesus’ crucifixion, the greatest pain, became the doorway to the greatest purpose: salvation for all mankind.
Sis, the abuse you survived, the addiction you broke free from, the heartbreak you thought would kill you — God can flip it into a weapon against the enemy and a light for another woman’s healing. That pain becomes a testimony. That testimony becomes a ministry. That ministry becomes a legacy.
Romans 8:28 is not just a verse — it’s a promise. All things — the ugly, the shameful, the traumatic — work together for good when placed in God’s hands.

Why Your Pain Has Purpose

  1. Pain Produces Compassion: You can now comfort others with the comfort you received from God (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).
  2. Pain Produces Strength: What should have killed you made you stronger in Christ. “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9).
  3. Pain Produces Testimony: Your story becomes proof that God is still in the business of healing and restoration.
  4. Pain Produces Purpose: God turns your wounds into a weapon and your scars into a signpost for His glory.

A Word for the Women of Encouraging Her Resilience

Sis, some of us were snatched from the very gates of hell. Some of us carry scars from abuse, rejection, addiction, or violence. And yet, here you are — still standing. Do you realize that is purpose already at work?
When pain meets purpose, you no longer see yourself as a victim but as a victor. You begin to understand that the devil’s attack was not just about destroying you — it was about silencing the assignment on your life.
But let me tell you: your pain is not wasted. God is turning it into purpose. Your tears are watering seeds of ministry. Your scars are evidence that healing is real. Your survival is someone else’s roadmap to freedom.

Declaration for Day 15

“My pain is not wasted. God is turning it into purpose. What the enemy meant for evil, God is flipping for my good. My scars are my testimony, my past is my platform, and my story will bring Him glory.”

Point to Remember

Pain can be the seed of your purpose.


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From Chains to Change — How God Redeemed My Life

Hey, Resilient Woman — Your Healing Starts Here

My name is Dashonia Marie, and I am living proof that God can take a shattered life and turn it into a story of strength, purpose, and redemption. I’ve walked through the fire — addiction, trauma, loss, and pain that tried to silence my purpose — but God’s grace met me in the ashes and taught me how to rise.

I know what it feels like to be broken, to question your worth, and to wonder if freedom is even possible. But I also know what it means to encounter the healing power of God — the kind that restores what was stolen, rewrites your identity, and breathes new life into weary hearts.

Through Encouraging Her Resilience, I’ve made it my mission to walk beside women like you — women who are ready to break cycles, renew their minds, and rediscover the woman God created them to be. This is not about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about learning that your past does not define you — God’s promise does.

As a Certified Addiction Counselor and Faith-Based Recovery Coach, I don’t just offer sessions; I offer safe spaces — places where healing is nurtured, faith is strengthened, and transformation begins from the inside out.

I believe every woman has a comeback story waiting to be written — and I’m here to help you write yours. Because if God could redeem my life, He can surely restore yours. 

Healing is possible. Hope is real. Freedom is yours — and it starts with saying yes.

With love and grace,

Dashonia Marie

Founder, Encouraging Her Resilience
Certified Addiction Counselor & Recovery Coach


 


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