The Hidden Prison-When Unforgiveness Live Within
Day 2: The Hidden Prison — When Unforgiveness Lives Within
 
Scripture Focus
 
Matthew 18:34–35 (NLT)
 
“Then the angry king sent the man to prison to be tortured until he had paid his entire debt. That’s what my heavenly Father will do to you if you refuse to forgive your brothers and sisters from your heart.”

Devotional Teaching
 
Dear Resilient Woman of God,
 
Let’s be real — some prisons don’t have bars.
Some prisons are built with memories, replayed offenses, and silent bitterness tucked away in our hearts.
 
You smile, but you’re shackled.
You serve, but you’re still suffering.
You’re free on the outside, but locked up on the inside.
 
Unforgiveness is a hidden prison — and the enemy loves to keep us there, all while convincing us that we’re “okay.”
 
But Jesus didn’t die for you to live functioning and bound.
He died so you could live healed and free.
 
The man in Matthew 18 was forgiven a massive debt — but refused to forgive someone who owed him less. Because of this, he was thrown into prison. Jesus made it plain: Unforgiveness leads to torment — emotionally, mentally, spiritually.
 
And if we’re honest, some of us have been tormented.
 Sleepless nights
 Bitterness we don’t talk about
 Walls we’ve built to protect ourselves from being hurt again
 Guilt we carry over things we’ve done to others
 
But here’s the truth:
You don’t have to live in that hidden prison.
Not another day.
 
You are a woman of resilience. A daughter of the King.
You don’t belong behind emotional bars.

Reflection Prompt
 
 In your journal, write this:
  • Is there someone I’ve locked in a mental or emotional prison because of what they did?
  • Have I locked myself in one?
  • What evidence of hidden unforgiveness is still showing up in my thoughts, my trust issues, my relationships, or my silence?
 
Let the Holy Spirit reveal what you haven’t been able to admit.

Application Challenge
 
 Today’s Challenge:
 
On a piece of paper, draw a door or a prison cell. Inside, write what or who is still being held in captivity by your unforgiveness — even if it’s you.
 
Then pray this aloud:
 
“God, I surrender this prison. I tear down every emotional wall, every spiritual chain, and every hidden torment that unforgiveness has created in me. I give You the key. I’m ready to walk out. I forgive by faith — and I receive freedom by grace.”
 
Tear that paper up as a prophetic act of release.

Closing Prayer
 
Father God,
 
I’ve carried this long enough.
No more pretending. No more masking. No more silently suffering under the weight of hidden unforgiveness.
 
I ask You now to break every unseen chain — the bitterness, the guilt, the pain, the pride, the self-blame.
Set me free from the prisons I’ve built to survive.
Teach me how to forgive — and how to walk in the light again.
 
I will no longer live like a prisoner when You’ve called me to live like a daughter.
 
I declare today that I am unchained.
 
In the mighty name of Jesus,
Amen.
 

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Hey Resilient Woman, 

My name is Dashonia Marie, and I am a woman who has experienced the depths of pain, addiction, and trauma—but also the transformative power of God’s grace and healing. My life is a testimony of how surrendering to God can bring renewal and restoration, no matter how broken the pieces may seem.
 
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