Day 2: Identifying the Source of Negative Thinking

Day 2: Identifying the Source of Negative Thinking

Scripture Focus:
“As he thinks in his heart, so is he.” —
 Proverbs 23:7 (NKJV)
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” —
 John 10:10 (NIV)

Resilient Woman of God, today we uncover one of the most powerful truths about the battle for your mind: negative thinking always has a root. It doesn’t just appear out of nowhere — it’s planted. And what’s been planted in your mind can either grow into faith or fester into fear.

The thoughts that replay in your head — “I’m not worthy,” “Nothing ever works out for me,” “God is disappointed in me” — they were never God’s voice. Somewhere along your journey, those lies were sown by life’s experiences, by people’s words, or by the enemy himself.

From a young age, many of us absorbed messages we didn’t realize were shaping our identity. Maybe it was the absence of a father who made you feel unwanted. Maybe it was the rejection of friends who made you feel unlovable. Maybe it was your own mistakes that left you ashamed. Over time, those feelings turned into belief systems. And now, every time something goes wrong, your mind automatically agrees with the old lie — “See? This always happens to me.”

But God never called you to live under that mental pattern. Jesus came so that you could have life — not just physically breathing, but mentally and spiritually alive. That’s why John 10:10 reminds us that the thief’s purpose is to steal, kill, and destroy — and one of the first things he targets is your thought life.

When the enemy can’t destroy your faith outright, he’ll slowly erode your confidence. He’ll make you question whether God really cares. He’ll replay painful memories and whisper, “You’re too broken to be used.” But those are spiritual toxins designed to keep you small.

One of the greatest revelations in renewing your mind is learning to trace your thoughts back to their source. Every thought carries a fingerprint — it either bears the mark of your Father or the imprint of your past. When a thought enters your mind, pause and ask:
  • Does this sound like the voice of peace or of panic?
  • Does this build my faith or feed my fear?
  • Does this reflect my worth in Christ or my wounds from the past?
If the answer is fear, shame, or confusion — it’s not from God.
1 Corinthians 14:33 (NLT)
 says, “For God is not a God of disorder but of peace.” Anything that leaves you anxious, defeated, or hopeless is disorder — and it must be replaced with truth.

The enemy doesn’t need to control your life if he can control your beliefs. That’s why renewing the mind is not optional — it’s spiritual survival. Every lie left unchallenged becomes an agreement. And every agreement empowers the lie.

So how do you break the power of those old agreements? You begin by recognizing them. You start to see patterns for what they are — not “who you are,” but “what you learned.” Maybe you were taught to expect disappointment, so now you brace for failure even when God opens a door. Maybe you’ve been in survival mode for so long that peace feels foreign.

But here’s the hope, woman of God: when you identify the lie, you strip it of authority. When you bring a hidden belief into the light of God’s Word, its grip weakens. Darkness cannot stand where truth is revealed.

In Ephesians 4:22–23 (AMP), Paul writes, “Strip yourselves of your former nature… and be constantly renewed in the spirit of your mind [having a fresh mental and spiritual attitude].” Constant renewal means constant awareness. You must pay attention to what you allow to take root in your heart.

Your thought life is sacred ground. Not every seed deserves to grow there.

This is why healing and deliverance often begin not in the altar call, but in the awareness that something you’ve believed for years is simply not true.

Resilient Woman of God, the renewal of your mind begins when you choose to stop letting your past narrate your present. You are not the sum of what you’ve been through — you are the reflection of who God says you are.

Today, let this truth take root: your mind may have been a battlefield, but it is also a sanctuary where the Spirit of God desires to dwell. And wherever His Spirit is, lies lose their power, and truth begins to rewrite your story.


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From Chains to Change — How God Redeemed My Life

Hey, Resilient Woman — Your Healing Starts Here

My name is Dashonia Marie, and I am living proof that God can take a shattered life and turn it into a story of strength, purpose, and redemption. I’ve walked through the fire — addiction, trauma, loss, and pain that tried to silence my purpose — but God’s grace met me in the ashes and taught me how to rise.

I know what it feels like to be broken, to question your worth, and to wonder if freedom is even possible. But I also know what it means to encounter the healing power of God — the kind that restores what was stolen, rewrites your identity, and breathes new life into weary hearts.

Through Encouraging Her Resilience, I’ve made it my mission to walk beside women like you — women who are ready to break cycles, renew their minds, and rediscover the woman God created them to be. This is not about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about learning that your past does not define you — God’s promise does.

As a Certified Addiction Counselor and Faith-Based Recovery Coach, I don’t just offer sessions; I offer safe spaces — places where healing is nurtured, faith is strengthened, and transformation begins from the inside out.

I believe every woman has a comeback story waiting to be written — and I’m here to help you write yours. Because if God could redeem my life, He can surely restore yours. 

Healing is possible. Hope is real. Freedom is yours — and it starts with saying yes.

With love and grace,

Dashonia Marie

Founder, Encouraging Her Resilience
Certified Addiction Counselor & Recovery Coach


 


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